Help, I am torn between 2 churches?

You sound like a smart young man. :) I have been intensely studying the Word and messages spoken by Jesus and Paul, and honestly, they were far from feel good messages. I am learning that Christianity/faith is not about accepting Jesus, but about surrendering to Jesus. Not about what He can give us but about what we can give Him. Not about a wealthy life on earth, but about a wealthy life in Heaven. I think the church you go to should be extremely Bible and service focused...and maybe that is neither church A or B...maybe you need to keep looking, but more important is what you do in your own time and in your own relationship with Christ. Study the Word for yourself. Because when judgement day comes, you can't blame anyone or any church...you will be accountable for yourself. I say this out of love and concern! :)