Is this fair, or am I being selfish?

you have every right to be angry and upset with how unfair your marriage is and how much of a control freak your hubby is..looks like both of you need time together..just two of you..maybe try dinner with your friends..you should be falling more in love with your husband not falling more out of love with him..and do keep in mind..ok, you chose to stay home with the children while he worked..rember, the man is bringing home the bacon and maybe try and keep that in mind..otherwise..find yourself a lover.