Are there any guys willing to wait for sex?

I'm 18, a female and I hate having to deal with the big bad sex issue. A relationship always comes down to sex! I hate it. My ex boyfriend pressured me a lot when we were together. Now that we're broken up, he's telling everyone the reason we broke up was because I was mean to him a lot and wouldn't "put out". The fact that he's even saying that just makes him look like the biggest ******. He was my first real serious boyfriend, but we never had sex. It just still means a lot to much to me. I want to cherish my body and save it for someone who I'm absolutely in love with, without a doubt. I'd like to know if there are any guys out there that actually want to wait until they're sure and not just act on primal instincts. My ex even told me once that he needed it because I don't satisfy him in other ways. I gave him my heart, but it seems like he just wanted my body. I'm starting to think I'm out of luck. I have no trouble getting dates, but all men want right now is sex.